Letter to Karen (Written March 2002)

Letter to Karen (Written March 2002)

My Darling Princess Karen,
I am so glad that you were kidding. Perhaps, with all the things going on in my life...two weddings for my children, Tony in the combat zone, meeting the dream of my life (that would be you)...Perhaps, my male ego is a little fragile right now.

Think about this for a moment: In the past, I did everything I could to bring happiness to my family. I provided everything for their comfort. I actually "spoiled" them...because that's just the way I am. So Darling, I apologize if my ego seems a little fragile…because it probably is at this time...if you get my drift.

With my "A" Type personality, I am a "pleaser". I want to please people,
especially those whom I love. The problem is: You can't please everybody.

Therefore, I have accepted more balance into my life. My philosophy now is... "SWSWSW"! Some will. Some won't. So what!

Some will accept my generosity. Some will accept my love. Some will accept my talents and abilities. Some will accept my advice. Some will accept my frailties, insecurities, and flaws. Some won't. So what. It does not change the real person that I am. I like me. My family loves me. I believe you love me. In my heart, I know you do!

Therefore, today is a good day...a great day...a marvelous day...an
incredible day...a romantic day...a day to love...a day to rejoice...a day to be happy...a day to excel...a day for my Princess to get ready for the adventure of her life!
I Love you,
Tommy